One of the things I’ve noticed in my readings lately is there will be a lot of changes in 2024.
Many people want advice on whether or not they should leave less than-desirable, or toxic situations, or move to a new place. The answer from spirit so far has been a resounding, “Hell Yes.”
There is a big difference between staying to work things out with a willing participant and trying to “fix” someone. The latter never works - It only drains your energy, leaving you in worse shape than before you started.
I have been in several situations where I stayed because I believed I could “fix” the other person. I thought if I was hypervigilant enough, proactive enough, organized enough, helpful enough, positive enough, and perfect enough, then they would change. What ended up happening was that every time I contorted myself to be their savior, they respected me less, and less. I also became a shell of who I used to be. They became more resistant to my “help,” and (surprisingly) began to resent me. I would be flummoxed because of all my good intentions. I see now that you have to love people where they are. It is disrespectful to try and change someone. That’s not love, it’s control.
I also worked at a place where the manager was screaming at employees, making veiled threats, throwing things, and bringing up people’s mistakes in daily meetings to shame them. She would also hide to spy on us, trying to catch us doing something wrong. It was toxic but I thought I could rally everyone around, get HR involved, and hopefully get her fired because we had names of who was around, dates, and times of numerous incidents. Wow, did that backfire!
The problem was that people were terrified of the manager so when HR asked my co-workers about what was reported, people denied it or wouldn’t talk for fear of retaliation. HR wasn’t interested in digging any further. The only thing that changed was that she stopped throwing things at us. Before this, I thought HR was there to protect the employees, now I knew they were only there to protect the company. I thought that I could save us. I discovered that being a whistle-blower is a thankless task. At least it didn’t make the situation worse.
Our culture also needs to let go of “inappropriate positivity.” There is nothing wrong with looking on the bright side of a situation or being grateful for the things or people that you have in your life. It’s quite another to try to make something positive out of something deeply negative or toxic. Only looking at the positive and refusing to look at the negative is called DENIAL! (My friend Connie used to say, “A pile of shit with parsley on the top, is still a pile of shit.) This type of thinking keeps us stuck in the situation. “If I could just be more (positive, helpful, available, organized, thin, or …). then things would be better.” If it feels awful, then it’s awful. There’s no spinning it. THIS WOULD MAKE ANY DIFFICULT SITUATION FEEL TOTALLY HOPELESS.
Frequently, things are good at the beginning of a job or a relationship. Then you start noticing little ethical rules being broken, or important corners being cut. If you dread going to work every day, it’s probably time for a change. Maybe it's time to finally do that thing you've always wanted to do but never permitted yourself to do so. Or maybe, it's time to retire so you have more time to do the things you always wanted to do, like spending time with the grandchildren, traveling, volunteering, spending time with friends or family, or doing a hobby that makes your heart sing.
Relationships are the same way. At first, things are great. Then as time goes by, socks on the floor or a trip to the mall can cause a full-blown blown argument. This can happen for several reasons. Sometimes people don’t feel respected or valued in their relationships. Other times, couples outgrow each other and are living like strangers in the same house. Just because you’ve been married for 20+ years isn’t a reason to continue with something that isn’t working or putting up with bad behavior. I’m not saying don’t try. Just remember, it takes two to be a couple but it only takes one to end it.
The Angels are telling me that the reason that we are going to be seeing big changes is because it’s time to let the old, outdated model of being go. We weren’t designed to be on 24/7. It’s okay to be, not just do. When I worked at an inpatient facility, the motto was "Fast is slow, and slow is fast." This means you can spend 5 minutes with a resident or patient to hear them or you can spend hours dealing with the fallout once they explode. Life is the same way. Science has proved again and again that downtime is what leads to creativity. Boredom is what’s needed for children’s frontal lobes to develop. Stress causes the body to release cortisol which is bad for your heart and immune system. Being in nature is one of the ways to slow down. It heals the body and the soul because it brings us into balance. For example, trees release a chemical that reduces our stress and anxiety, in addition to cleaning and cooling the air with their leaves and the water with their roots.
There is a lot of conflict going on in the world. We need more light workers. Lightworkers are people who are tapped into their intuition and bring "light" to the planet. They include Energy Healers, Mediums, Psychics, Reiki practitioners, Shaman, and Tarot Readers. They can also include nurses, psychologists, holistic practitioners, hair stylists, artists, and teachers. (Just so you know, this list is not all-inclusive. Lightworkers can be anyone!)
Lightworkers need to be around others who support them so they can do what’s needed to make a shift in the consciousness of the planet. This also means that people are going to be needed in different roles and different places so people are going to be shifting jobs, relationships, and moving to different places.
What’s needed now is more love and less hate, more courage and less fear, more support and less judgment, more forgiveness and less anger and resentment, more authenticity and less of being who others want us to be. Our shame needs to be given back to the people who gave it to us. This is why people now are questioning what they should do about the negative situations they are in.
The Angels also want to remind us that suffering is NEVER in the plan, that’s a man-made concept. Feelings are meant to be felt and then released, not stuffed into our bodies. Then wonder why we're so exhausted, depressed, angry, or can't sleep. It takes a ton of energy to hold all of those feelings inside ourselves! Now is the time to shift out of the old and into the new paradigm where authenticity, love, and respect are the norm, not the exception. Bless the changes!
Anyone can do these things by themselves, but sometimes we like to practice with others like us. I am running a Clairs Class at AIMS on Wednesdays from 5:30 to 7:00 on the Greeley Campus from April 3rd - May 8th, 2024, and on the Loveland Campus from June 05 - July 17th on Wednesdays from 5:30 to 7:30.
I would love it if you would share the things that have worked for you, being supportive of each other, and cheering each other on. Note: The comments section is at the bottom of this page.
Until next time…
Leanne Psychic Medium
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