Signs That Someone Might Be Planning To Transition
- Leanne Psychic Medium
- Sep 11
- 4 min read
Updated: Sep 14
During this 9-year, there have been a lot of endings and transitions. I had a cousin who recently transitioned “out of the blue”. Although we lived 1,000 miles apart, I had seen her 10 months earlier and hadn’t picked up on the fact that she was sick. It’s possible she wasn’t. When she transitioned a few months ago, I was thrown for a loop. How did I miss this? So I asked the Angels for some guidance, and they told me this...
There are generally 3 reasons why we don’t see the signs:
1. They have their shields up.
2. We are caught up in our own lives and miss the signs.
3. And lastly, we don’t know what the signs are, or downplay what we do see.
I love the expression that hindsight is 20/20.
Those who are elderly or ill tend to know when an endpoint is nearing. They also talk about dying, their wishes, or putting their house in order.
I’ve also heard from spirits and their relatives that they knew that they were going to transition, even when it was an “accident.” There are many stories about people who didn’t want to get on a plane, go to a specific place, or go to the World Trade Towers. At some level, they knew that they were going to the other side.
Here are some signs to look for that indicate someone you love may be transitioning soon:
Their energy is really low.
Their aura is dull and really close to their body.
They look or feel really exhausted or overwhelmed.
They reminisce about the “good old days”.
They stop talking about the future.
They start talking to people who have transitioned, like they are in the room with them.
They talk about what it would be like if they weren’t here anymore.
They talk about how scary it is to die or wish they were dead.
They start giving their things to loved ones.
They stop doing things they loved to do—hobbies, friends, traveling.
They look forward to seeing relatives and friends on the other side.
They talk about being called home.
They reveal their wishes after they are gone.
Complain that food doesn’t taste good anymore or refuse to eat.
They stop caring about their appearance.
Their world gets very small, or they are isolated.
When you see these signs, it's helpful if you:
Check in with them.
Tell them how much you love them
Go down memory lane with them
Share your thoughts and feelings (good or bad)
Share any regrets you have.
Ask them how you can help.
Acknowledge how much pain they are in.
If you can, try to get family and friends together for a meal or party to show them how much they are loved.
There are times when someone is nearing one of their endpoints, and you can help them choose to stay and finish their journey here on earth. My brother Robert, who transitioned before I was born, appeared to me several times when I was really struggling with whether I should stay. He said to me, “I totally understand why you want to go. Life has been really hard. But you can get through this, and then you will have the strength to help others get through it too.” A movie that really brings this home is "If I Stay."
Other times, it is their destiny to transition. Nothing we do or say can keep them here with us on earth because they are transitioning to a higher calling or to fulfill their contract with another soul(s).
Sometimes, the dying will stay longer because they are worried about what will happen if they go. It’s okay to tell them that you will miss them, but you will be all right when they are gone.
Only you can know what is the best thing for your loved one, who’s at an endpoint in their life. Life is precious. Some people came to earth to be our greatest teachers, while others came to love us to pieces. Be grateful for both.
Seeing someone dying is always hard. What I want most is for you to see the signs that someone you love (or possibly hate) may transition and that you were there for them, even if things aren’t going well between you. I want you to have the time to say or do the things that you’ve always wanted to but didn’t have time or were too hurt, embarrassed, or afraid to say the things you need to, and the courage to tell them your truth, whatever that truth may be.
Please share what has worked for you, supporting and cheering each other on. Note: The comments section is at the bottom of this page.
Anyone can do these things on their own, but sometimes we enjoy practicing with others like us.
Where you can find me:
Classes at Aims:
Awakening Your Intuition through the Clairs: Level 1 at Aims in Greeley. 6 weeks, Wednesdays, Sept 24-Oct 29, from 6-8 PM.
How to Communicate with Loved Ones on the Other Side
Loveland | 4 weeks Feb 7- Feb 28, Saturdays, 9-11 AM in Loveland.
Fairs:
BMSE Denver Fall Fair from September 19-21, Fri 1 - 9, Sat 10 - 7, and Sun 10 - 6 at the National Western Complex Expo Hall. Booth 54.
The Art & Soul Events 2025 at Douglas County Fairgrounds, September 27-28, 2025, Saturday 10-5, Sunday 10-4. Booth 111
Belu Olisa Fair from October 11 & 12, 2025, at The Ranch in Loveland. 10 - 5 (both days)
A Holiday & Magical Maker's Faire Arapaho County Fairgrounds November 8-9. Saturday 10-5, Sunday 10-4
Until next time,
Leanne Psychic Medium
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